BACK BACK BACKSTABBERRRRR - LETS TALK FAKE FRIENDS & DESTINY SWAPS😊

Alexa play Backstabber by Ke$ha. (Again😊) 

I’ve endureddddddddd. 

Hating Scheming Facetious Jealous Vengeful Insane Psychopathic WICKED Witches.

In multiple friendships mind you like what I really do to yallllll??????????

GIVE ME THE REAL CAUSE LETS BE REAL. NOTHING.

I’ve touched on this topic before back in 2023 and we’re back here for Part II. 

LETS GOOOOOOOOOO

My friendship group in secondary school to sixth form were absolute mean girls. There’s no other word to describe it fake and nasty that look good on the outside but they were so wicked to me. So much hate in their hearts, insecure and weird. 

Tbh from how it started out in the group it was too many violations .

Listen when people show you not once twice but multiple times they don’t rate you step away from the scene EXIT STAGE LEFT. 

They would exclude me from:

• Outings 

• Opportunities 

• Birthdays

• Hate on my outfits

• Chat to guys that I liked to banter me and downnnnn me.

• Make sly jokes at my expense in front of guys and other women. 

• Tell my business that I shared in confidence my pain and hurt to use as leverage for their wicked games.

• Call me sensitive when I’d get upset but they were EVIL!!!

  
  

They rose to success and I fell into obscurity but here’s where it gets interesting.

IT’S WITCHCRAFT AND DESTINY SWAPPING! 

What exactly is witchcraft and destiny swapping: 

Witchcraft: Manipulation and control.

Destiny Swapping: Destiny swapping refers to the supposed ability to interchange or significantly alter one’s predetermined life course with that of another person. This concept often involves spiritual, mystical, or metaphysical methods and is deeply rooted in the belief that individuals can influence or change their fate through supernatural means.

Why Do People Engage in Destiny Swapping?

Individuals may seek destiny swapping for various reasons:

•  Dissatisfaction with Current Life Circumstances: People unhappy with their life trajectory might look towards destiny swapping as a means to escape their current situations.

• Desire for a Better Life: The allure of a more desirable or perceived better destiny can motivate individuals to explore destiny swapping.

  
  

Character assassination and slander is MURDER in the physical realm but starts first off in the spiritual realm. 

Spiritual Realm: Hatred in the heart and minds, it rots the soul from inside out. They can’t control themselves. 

The Bible says in Proverbs 4:16

“The For the wicked cannot sleep unless they do evil; And they are deprived of sleep unless they make someone stumble and fall.”

When time for sixth form came round, myself and 2 of the girls in the group went to the same sixth form. The other girl I’d call the group leader went to a different sixth form. The summer before we were to start, we did an induction for a week or so, for us to get to know the sixth form and meet students that would attend. 

Cool. 

I went with the two girls.

In one of the induction classes there was a random girl with her head on the desk sleeping. 

Who knew one day she’d one day try to ruin my life for the next 10 YEARS. 

SCARY WIERD HOE. 

I saw this video on tiktok about this influencer talking about her experience with one weirdo that wanted her life and to be her and it was so relatable I’ll link it below cause that’s really what it felt like. 

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNdhUJL4G/

She had mad rampppppp and ammo for me and for whattttttt? Mind you I have never done bad to this girl. 

She had a business and I got my hair done with her and even gave her a tip, I had my little sister get my hair done with her I’ve had her make a wig for me before (that ish was even toooo tight if I even speak anyways). On one of her birthday’s I went round to her house (she literally lived 2 mins away from mine) and I gave her a  card and money but MY birthday sis was no where to be found when I invited her to things. Not that I expect anything but ???? 

When it came to my business said she book in lol (that never happened). 

The last straw was Jan 2022 one of the girls in the groups birthday. I’m telling you now she lives 2 mins away not to be entitled or anything but we were all meant to make our way to the restaurant and she drove, I didn’t ask but I thought  like maybe she’d pick me up knowing how close we live to each other but she went to pick up the two other girls one lives further. I remember making my way from the station where the restaurant was the walk was longgggg and my feet were hurting. I thought to myself I couldn’t even ask or she’ll get angry as if I’m asking for too much. 

They were all there at the restaurant it felt like a humiliation ritual and oh it was.

What is a humiliation ritual you ask? 

I’ve experienced this many many many times so I’ve recognised the pattern by psychopaths sociopaths and narcissists so let’s get into it:

Humiliation rituals are a type of public punishment where the focus is on degrading or dishonouring a person. This can involve forcing them to wear specific clothes, engage in humiliating behaviours, or being publicly ridiculed. 

Psychological Effects: 

Humiliation rituals can have significant psychological consequences, including: 

• Depression and suicidal thoughts:

  The shame and disgrace can lead to severe mental health issues.

  
  
  
  

• Revenge and anger:

  Humiliated individuals may be driven to seek revenge or feel immense anger.

  
  
  
  

• Loss of self-worth:

  The ritual can damage a person's self-esteem and lead to feelings of worthlessness.

  
  
  
  

There were MANY!

• The start of their YouTube channel; I remember them complimenting me saying I reminded them of Patricia Bright and I should do YouTube knowing how much I loveddddddd YouTube and really wanted to but I didn’t have the confidence to start. They start a YouTube channel and one of them tells me, smirking. Wicked witch strike 1.

• Two of them were on Insta live I joined and I literally commented and they burst out laughing. Mind you there were 2 viewers on that live looooool. Strike 2 

• On my 18th birthday we were at a spa and they had me mainly take pictures of THEM. Madness my birthday. I did cause they were my mates abi???!. LOL Strike 3 

• One of the girls had a surprise birthday and they all linked up to lavish her with gifts I was seeing this like why am I not invited ???? I messaged one of the girls and she like ohhh it want my idea, it was planned well thought out . HUMIILATION RITUAL. My last birthday before the friendship really died, 2 of them messaged me one after the other one throwaway happy birthday. 

• When they finally decided to have me on their YouTube channel it was a group setting and one of their friends, a flying monkey commented directly to me how one of their friends girls from a secondary school had bleached their skin right at he end of the video (what the helllllll that gotta do with me????? I was so confused) I remember I tried to follow her on IG she never followed me back. 

• There were other girls I was once friendly with that after linking up with me would literally disconnect with me on socials. MADNESS we were once friends. 

• They would connect with other girls I’ve disconnected from to assassinate me and sabotage me. My so called fake uni friends believed their lies and now also started sabotaging me. 

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.

My last birthday they messaged a stylist not to book with me. 

I was looking for a hairstylist 1 week to my birthday to get a silk press and I followed someone near me I took me ages to find someone aswell that was not booked up for a nice silk press in the time crunch. She gives me the time dates and cost and I’m like cool.

Few days later go by. Cricketssssss.

I’m now like???? 

This is oddddd. And those same frenemies they’ve now collected more flying monkeys some of them even reported my TikTok’s videos too, witches. 

See how God works. Let me tell you somethinggggg

In the last few days I was able to find someone else cheaper, more experienced and did my hair nicelyyyy. Not too far to get to also.

 God sees and hears our cries and anguish and he sorts  us out. 

They watched my stories like hawksssss hoping to see if their sabotage worked. Keep watching hunny cause it never did. Dummies. 🤪🤪🤪🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Way back when I was a child a prophet came to my church and laid hands on me and prophesied to me that I should be careful of friends. My dad would repeat those words over the years disapproving of those friends.

He knew the real from the fake but I wouldn’t listennnnn.

 Listen people often times your parents KNOW who’s for you or otherwise. Don’t not listen just because you think they don’t know life or nothing. They’ve seen ish. They know. Mind you that same girl getting lashings after I left the group, I was told by the old girl group leader who came to me that her mum even said that she’s not happy for her. I’m thinking why you hanging with this girlllll? 

I advised her that she should distance herself but did she listen? No.

Money fame success and connection by any means necessary will KILL YOU.

Friendship is not by FORCE. 

I wish I learnt it sooner but if I had to endure so that other people can be free. So be it. 

Here’s were the destiny swap business comes in:

People will see your light what you’re capable of if they can’t replicate it the way you do they will go to ritualists and occultists to STEAL your destiny what God has planned for you:

I KNOW musically I’ve always been gifted and called to music.

Me and music are 1&2. One of the only things that truly understands meeeeeeeee.

Here’s what they did:

-Assassinated my character to people who could help me.

-Downplay my abilities.

-Tell me I’m talented in that area of gifting then steal what I wanted to do and rise to great success through witchcraft. 

The devils collecting now ain’t he? 😊

Wicked witches. Everything it's falling down now ain’t it?🤣🤣🤣

The main group leader that joined the group used to nickname herself DIABLO.

Translation:

DIABLO - Devil. 

Now ask me this why would you befriend someone who nicknames themselves the devil. ???? No discernment no judgement. Foolish. 

When I finally spoke up for myself my mum actually told her mum.

Her mum had her call me and on the phone it was tenseeeeee my spirit felt grieved and afraid like I was in the presence of something very dark and evil I couldn’t even speak it felt like an oppressive dark force. I’ve encountered many witches and warlocks and it felt the same. Exactly the same. Some of the most religious people you will meet but it’s all a facade. 

Once we ended the call that’s when she really showed me shege. 

I shared that I felt I was being pushed out of the group (truth). It felt like I was being replaced with her. It was strange. 

Once their channel rose to success it was bittersweet

 I wept. It’s giving John 11:35 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Not out of jealousy but deep pain. I felt that I had lost something. The friendship, something that was so dear to me. They would take trips and I felt like an outsider looking in. Never a call or check in. It was just so painful. 

BUT HERE WE ARE NOW. 

WHATEVER YOU SOW MY GOD YOU WILL REAP.

And they’re reaping bitterly, don’t let the fake smiles linkups and alliances fool you. They don’t like each other. The image is the first thing to protect but they slander and backstab each other baddd and argue with each other like enemies. 

How do I know? 

You know when it comes to me God will always reveal to me things that I’d been thinking through those same people or third parties. 

One of the girls messages me maybe May 2022 asking me about the girl that was the last to join the group asking me to share my experiences again with her because one of the other girls has been going through some things with that same girl.

I said to myself ohhhhh. You wanna circle back but when it was me it was crickets. 

I helped anyways because I just do.

I shared all my experiences again and she started questioning things like where did she come from? Who were her friends before us? And just sharing how on holidays they’d be arguing and behind closed doors is not what it appears on the surface. 

She also said how she felt like she targets the weakest of the group once she’s done with them she find her next target. She would plant seeds of doubt to other friends like “Why is she doing this why is she going here, why would she do this and that”. SNAKEY deceptive witch. Mind you she’s not perfect by ANY means or standards. 

If you’re dealing with this girls ladies boys men. 

Peep it and fleeeeeee QUICKLY.

Never go to the source that is abusing you and tell them they’re abusing you. You’re basically walking into a hungry lions den, locking and throwing away the key. 

Forgive those people they’re weird bitter and miserable and very much mentally insane. You can’t be around those people for very long it’ll affect your spirit and bring you down.

Even further they WILL try to kill you. If not physically then SPIRITUALLY. 

If we go back to my old post about this girl I mentioned Naomi Oni. Who got her face splashed with acid by her so called friend. 

THESE PEOPLE ARE DERANGED.

Leave them where they’re weird at. 

The thing is they’ll have more than you but jealousy will eat them up inside because you have something intangible. THE GOD LIVING INSIDE OF YOU. 

They can take everything else away from you but the favour and mercy from God will always speak for you. It may take years but my God he will fight for you. 

Recently the story of Valeria Marquez has made headlines and her death raises MANY questions in the area of friendships, jealousy and destiny swapping:

Valeria Márquez, a 23-year-old Mexican beauty influencer and business owner, was tragically shot and killed on May 13, 2025, during a TikTok livestream at her salon in Zapopan, Jalisco. The assailant reportedly walked into the salon, confirmed her identity, and shot her multiple times, all while viewers watched in real-time. The attack has been classified as a femicide, and investigations are ongoing.

The Role of Her Friends

Before her death, Valeria had reportedly fallen out with close friends, and many online speculators believe these individuals may have played a role — not necessarily in the physical attack, but in spiritually or energetically contributing to the events that unfolded. Allegations have surfaced suggesting that some of her friends may have been jealous of her rising influence, beauty, and success.

Someone CAN spiritually hijack another person’s life path, energy, or anointing — often through witchcraft, envy, or imitation. In Valeria’s case, people have pointed out that one of her ex-friends began copying her aesthetic, lifestyle, and even personal details shortly before her death.

Many believe this was not a coincidence but a deliberate spiritual attack to “swap destinies” removing Valeria so the imitator could step into her place.

ITS AN EVIL WORLD WE LIVE IN!!!!!!

Provided you:

1. Surrender (let go of the situation) and give your life to Jesus wholeheartedly. No half-hearted one foot in one foot out business. 

2. Walk in his ways and follow his commandments

3. Get to know him relationship wise FORGET RELIGION I cannot STAND overly religious people. They’re overcompensating for something and they’ve got nastyyyyyy skeletons in their closet.

4. Let the scripture Psalms 91 be your best friend. I’ve been reciting that prayer since I was a child. 

   
   

God is with you. Get to know Him.

He will sort you out and sort them out too. 🤣

Alexa play:

ROMANS REVENGE by Nicki Minaj

THE JUMP OFF by Lil' Kim

ITTY BITTY PIGGY by Nicki Minaj

MILKSHAKE by Kelis

COMING HOME by Kali Uchis

LET IT HAPPEN by Tame Impala

SAD GURLZ LUV MONEY by Amaarae, Kali Uchis, Molly

NEXT UP PART 1 by Mixtape Madness ft Digga D, Sav’o

HELLA KWENGINS by Stickzodt, Swavey, Ard Adz, Jboy, Sho Shallow, M Dargg

FOOLISHNESS by AM & Skengdo

SCREWFACE CAPITAL by Dave

OF COURSE by Headie One

SHUTDOWN by Skepta

ACE HOOD FLOW by Skepta

I SPY by Skepta

MAN by Skepta

BIG DIFFERENCE by Nicki Minaj

NEEDLE by Nicki Minaj ft Drake

PRETTY GIRL ROCK by Keri Hilson

FLAWLESS by Beyoncé ft Nicki Minaj

BEEZ IN THE TRAP by Nicki Minaj ft 2 Chainz

DEAD TO ME by Kali Uchis

RAN OUT by JT

BARBIE DANGEROUS by Nicki Minaj

WHY I LOVE YOU by Jay Z, Kanye West

BLOW by Ke$ha

OKAY by JT

HARD WHITE by Nicki Minaj

BASTARD by Three Wisemen

DID IT ON EM by Nicki Minaj

CONCEITED by Remy Ma

YIKES by Nicki Minaj

Y.U. MAD by Birdman, Nicki Minaj, Lil Wayne

& Finally

BACKSTABBER BY Ke$ha

Lots of love,

-Lero x

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