Male Jealousy towards Women! (Be Careful Ladies 👑)

Some men become extremely jealous of women and try to destroy them because of a deep mix of insecurity, control issues, unhealed trauma, and misogyny and often, these things are spiritual in nature too. Let’s break this down carefully

1. Wounded Ego and Insecurity

•Some men feel small inside. When they encounter a woman who is powerful, radiant, or unapologetically herself, it triggers their inadequacy.

•Instead of admiring or respecting her, they try to cut her down to feel superior or in control.

Spiritually: This is rooted in pride and fear. Pride resents anything that outshines it, and fear tries to destroy what it can’t dominate.

2. Misogyny Passed Down

•Some men have deep-rooted resentment or hatred toward women, often picked up from their upbringing, culture, or past experiences with women (e.g., betrayal by a mother, girlfriend, or female authority).

•That hatred festers, and instead of healing, they project it onto any woman who reminds them of what hurt them or who doesn’t submit.

Christian lens: This is the Jezebel vs. Ahab dynamic, flipped. Not all Jezebel spirits are in women. Ahab men can be passive-aggressive, manipulative, and destructive while appearing harmless.

3. They’re Attracted to the Light, But Envy It:

•Some men feel spiritually drawn to a woman’s light, but instead of honoring it, they get jealous of her favor, anointing, or beauty.

•Instead of protecting her, they sabotage her—emotionally, mentally, or even physically—out of envy.

This is Luciferic jealousy: being close to glory but hating the one who carries it.

4. They Want Control, Not Connection

•These men don’t want real intimacy, they want power over women.

•When a woman is strong or spiritually free, she can’t be manipulated easily, so the man tries to weaken her through gaslighting, criticism, isolation, or humiliation.

A controlling spirit can’t thrive in the presence of a healed woman. So it tries to shatter her before she realizes her worth.

5. Demonic Influence

•Some men are being used by demonic spirits consciously or unconsciously.

•If a woman is called by God, carries a prophetic gift, or is meant to birth something powerful (spiritually, creatively, relationally), the enemy may assign men to break her spirit.

The enemy doesn’t always send a witch sometimes he sends a man dressed as a lover, friend, or “nice guy” to slowly wear down her identity, hope, and voice.

6. Cain-Abel Spirit

•Just as Cain killed Abel out of jealousy because God accepted Abel’s offering, some men hate women who are chosen, favored, or walking in alignment.

•Instead of getting right with God or healing their own wounds, they try to kill the “Abel” in front of them - emotionally, socially, or spiritually.

To My Queens Experiencing This 💎

•Do not shrink. Do not apologize for your power.

•Recognize it’s spiritual. Forgive them, but don’t tolerate or stay close to them.

•Be wise: not every “pursuer” is sent by God.

•Cover yourself in prayer. Sometimes your light is triggering demons they haven’t dealt with.

Lots of Love,

-Lero

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