People Can CHANGE! 🦋🩵

You may not like the packaging but you WILL take this present. Get accustomed!

Something I’m learning on this journey of life as I grow and develop for my own self and for other people is that people can grow and develop and change.

I was once very terrible, my situation towards life, constantly comparing myself, being hyper critical of myself, hating confrontation and rejection (anxious avoidants ariseeeee lol), not loving myself and seeing life from the perspective of insecurity and shame).

At the same time I was very loving caring giving to those around me however I wasn’t getting back what I was giving in terms of mutual respect. That further reinforced the former before because I’m TRYING? Why aren’t these friendships and relationships working. The environment I was in wasn't conducive to the shadow parts of myself!

It suckeddddddd.

I was a mess!

It was like two parts of myself that were running to two ends of the room. I was splitting in two and it was driving me (literally) insane. I was like Dr Jekyll & Mr Hyde.

It was God.

God saved meeeeee.

Those former parts of myself are GONE! Of course there are elements of my old self when past traumas try to trigger me but it’s just simply impossible to shake the foundation that God imbued into me.

Let me not lie I went through the fire.

Like diamonds, they must be refined through fire to become the beautiful diamonds that they are!

I am less judgmental where I am now, I can’t look at people and think ugh that person has no future! Because at some point I was that person,  I asked God and pray and pour into the people that may be “unrefined” that God wants me to do!

People can change. Be gentle not judgmental 🩵

Lots of love

Lero x 💕